Don't go to the funeral until the day of the funeral. Live this day.
Life has sweetness to it and a beauty and a power that I wanted to celebrate.
Really appreciate the sunset as you're driving home, cursing all the terrible drivers on the road. Be where you are when you're there rather than out there in the future or back there in the past.
Forgiving is giving up the wish that things could have been different. They weren't. That's the past. Let it go.