Profile of Tonja

Natürlich kommt es immer auf die Wahrheit an. Was wollt ihr denn für eine Welt? Eine, in der Rache herrscht oder Recht? Die Wahl ist einfach.

Love wasn't possible without a self, and nor was thinking.

Feelings. The truth is, for so long, I'd forgotten what those even were. I've been stuck in one place, in a cave you might say. A deep, dark cave. And then, I left some Eggos out in the woods, and you came into my life and for the first time in a long time, I started to feel things again. I started to feel happy. But lately, I guess I've been feeling distant from you. Like you're pulling away from me or something. I miss playing boardgames every night, making triple-decker Eggo extravaganzas at sunrise, watching westerns together before we doze off. But I know you're getting older. Growing. Changing. And I guess if I'm being really honest, that's what scares me. I don't want things to change. So I think maybe that's why I came in here, to try to maybe... stop that change. To turn back the clock. To make things go back to how they were. But I know that's naive. It's just not how life works. It's moving. Always moving, whether you like it or not. And, yeah, sometimes it's painful. Sometimes it's sad. And sometimes... it's surprising. Happy. So you know what? Keep on growing up, kid. Don't let me stop you. Make mistakes, learn from 'em and when life hurts you, because it will, remember the hurt. The hurt is good. It means you're out of that cave.

One day, you will be old enough to start reading fairytales again.

Sometimes you can do everything right and things will still go wrong. The key is to never stop doing right.

Brave doesn't mean you're not scared. It means you go on even though you're scared.

What's the point of having a voice if you're gonna be silent in those moments you shouldn't be?

And the moral of the story' -
Girl , soft from not paths .
Stay alone and just not on ,
Never trust a stranger .

Never go to bitt'ren end .
Do not give yourself in someone else's hands .
Your beauty attracts them ,
and a wolf is every man .

Remember one thing: In the night
is already so many Wolf wakes .
Wines them no tear ,
Wolves have sharp teeth .

After all, to the well-organised mind, death is but the next great adventure.

Numbing the pain for a while will make it worse when you finally feel it.

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Red is such an interesting color to correlate with emotion, because it's on both ends of the spectrum. On one end you have happiness, falling in love, infatuation with someone, passion, all that. On the other end, you've got obsession, jealousy, danger, fear, anger and frustration.

Albus Dumbledore: "Harry, there is never a perfect answer in this messy, emotional world. Perfection is beyond the reach of humankind, beyond the reach of magic. In every shining moment of happiness is that drop of poison: the knowledge that pain will come again. Be honest to those you love, show your pain. To suffer is as human as to breathe."

Remember your dreams and fight for them. You must know what you want from life. There is just one thing that makes your dream become impossible: the fear of failure.

Life is not easy for any of us. But what of that? We must have perseverance and above all confidence in ourselves. We must believe that we are gifted for something and that this thing must be attained.

We always see our worst selves. Our most vulnerable selves. We need someone else to get close enough to tell us we’re wrong. Someone we trust.

You go through life wondering what is it all about but at the end of the day it's all about family.

I believe that the greatest gift you can give your family and the world is a healthy you.

'It was a mistake,' you said. But the cruel thing was, it felt like the mistake was mine, for trusting you.

...and i knew nothing,
looking into the heart of light, the silence.

Small is the number of them that see with their own eyes and feel with their own hearts.

You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think.

Promise me you'll never forget me because if I thought you would, I'd never leave.

It was because of the way you treated me that I learned to be my own person, have my own opinion, stand my ground. It’s at least partially because I survived you that I’m the person I am today.

My self-wroth is not linked to your cruel words and actions.
My self-esteem is not affected by your deliberate attempts to destroy my character.
You have no power over me.
You will not silence me.

Bystanders who do nothing give bullies permission inadvertently to go on being bullies. Most are afraid they’ll lose friends or be bullied themselves if they help victims or report bullies, and some feel guilty for years afterward.

A single rose can be my garden... a single friend, my world.

I recognise the council has made a decision, but given that it’s a stupid-ass decision, I’ve elected to ignore it.

To regret one's own experience is to arrest one's own development.

Sometimes the best way to learn something is by doing it wrong and looking at what you did.

No trumpets sound when the important decisions of our life are made. Destiny is made known silently.

Albus Dumbledore: 'It does not do to dwell on dreams, Harry, and forget to live.'

Ron: 'One person couldn't feel all that. They'd explode.'
Hermione: 'Just because you've got the emotional range of a teaspoon doesn't mean we all have!'

The only way to get over somebody is to feel really bad, cry to your girlfriends - and to replay what you hated about him over and over in your head all day.

Orgasms don't send you Valentine's cards and don't hold your hand in a sad movie.

Samantha: 'If I had a son, I'd teach him all about the vagina.'
Carrie: 'If you had a son, we'd call social services.'

Miranda: 'If 85% aren't circumcised, that means I've only slept with 15% of the population, tops.'
Carrie: 'You're practically a virgin.'

Samantha: 'I never Ieave underwear, because I never see it again.'
Charlotte: 'What happens to it?'
Samantha: 'Nothing, I never go back.'
Carrie: 'Isn't it a Iittle expensive disposing of lingerie every time you sleep with a guy?'
Samantha: 'That's why I stopped wearing underwear on dates.'
Miranda: 'That's why I'm never borrowing a dress from you again.'
Charlotte: 'I once found another woman's underwear in a man's bed.'
Carrie: 'Maybe it was Samantha's!'

Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.

Nymphomaniac: a woman as obsessed with sex as an average man.

It's necassary for me sometimes just to be alone and quiet and doing nothing.

Chaos isn't a pit. Chaos is a ladder. Many who tried to climb it, failed. Never get to try again. The fall breaks them. And some are given a chance to climb, but they refuse. They cling to the realm, or the gods, or love. Illusions. Only the ladder is real. The climb is all there is.

Remember, with great power. comes great responsibility.

True love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about and few have seen.

I try to lie as much as I can when I'm interviewed. It's reverse psychology. I figure if you lie, they'll print the truth.

I will live with my sorrow, I will live my own life. I will defeat sorrow, in his place. I will stand my ground and be strong. I don′t know when it will be but someday, I will conquer it. And I will do it without… false hope.

My characters are always utterly sympathetic to me.

Falling in love and having a relationship are two different things.

“How do you spell 'love'?" - "You don't spell it... you feel it."

The things that make me different are the things that make me.